Sib Qhia Kuv Ua Tsis Taus (thiab Cov Kev Zoo?)

Kaus lub taub rau McGee's Musings qhov twg kuv pom qhov tsis ua tiav video. Tsaug rau inspiring no ncej!

Rarely do I meet a successful person that hasn't had some disastrous failures behind them. Over the years, I've learned to measure my success differently than most. I'm successful because I've got 2 fantastic children who I'm incredibly proud of and who are already showing potential well beyond my achievements at half my age.

Looking back at my life, though, I believe my success has come because of my failures – not despite them. I've got a pretty colorful history and made many bad decisions, but it wasn't until about 5 years ago that I stopped concentrating and trying to improve what I was phem nyob rau hauv thiab pib paub txog qhov kuv yog zoo ntawmCov. Kuv tau pib nyob ib puag ncig kuv tus kheej nrog cov neeg uas txiav txim rau kuv thiab tau pab kuv nyiam kuv cov kev txawj ntse es tsis txhob thuam kuv qhov tsis muaj zog.

In my wake, I've was pauv los ntawm tsev kawm theem siab, busted nyob rau hauv qeb ntawm Tebchaws Asmeskas Navy, muaj kev sib nrauj, pib ob peb lub tuam txhab, poob ib lub tsev thiab tsiv kuv cov menyuam (ob zaug). Ntawm qhov tod tes, Kuv tuav cov qib honors-qib hauv tsev kawm qib siab, yog qhov zoo nkauj thiab kev tsim txiaj tawm ntawm Gulf War Vet, yog lub luag haujlwm loj hlob ntau lub lag luam muaj kev vam meej, muaj ib txhais tes hauv kev muag cov tuam txhab thoob ntiaj teb, thiab muaj lub tsev muaj kev nyab xeeb xws li ib qho. txiv nrog 2 tus menyuam ncaj ncees thiab ua haujlwm hnyav.

I'm now fortunate enough to help run a growing company that I helped to build the original business plans for. I'm still not wealthy, nor do I care about being so. My family still lives in an apartment. Any money that I have left over each payday goes to my son's tuition or is reinvested in new ventures. As long as I have a happy family and a roof over my head, I'm one happy guy!

Yog koj xav nug kuv ib qho xwm txheej loj tshaj plaws uas tau hloov kuv lub neej, Kuv muaj ob qho:

  1. Kuv sib nrauj. Kuv yog ib leej txiv uas hlub koj heev tab sis tsis tau qhia nws txog thaum kuv ntsib txoj kev ploj hauv kuv cov menyuam. Kuv txoj kev sib nrauj tso tag nrho kuv lub neej rau hauv txoj kev xav.
  2. Kuv tsum tawm ntawm lub tuam txhab. Tom qab tsim cov nyiaj tau los ntawm lub tuam txhab hauv zos uas tau tawm ntawm daim duab, kuv tau raug tso rau hauv kev tswj hwm tshiab uas xav tias kuv yog kev hem thawj thiab kuv tau tawm ntawm lub qhov rooj mus. Kuv los tsev, zaum saum lub rooj zaum, thiab hu phooj ywg Darren Grey thiab Pat Coyle.

    Pat put me to work immediately and I've never looked back. I also changed my attitude about myself and my worth to a business. I was never an neeg ua haujlwm dua, thiab txuas ntxiv ua haujlwm nrog thiab rau cov tuam txhab uas yuav txhawb kuv lub neej thaum kuv ua haujlwm txhawb lawv.

My advice to any young person is that the sooner you figure out what your strengths are and how to avoid positions or opportunities that don't capitalize on them, the sooner you'll find happiness. With happiness comes success.

7 Comments

  1. 1

    Koj tsis nco qab los hais txog koj yog qhov zoo ntawm kev tshoov siab rau lwm tus. Qhov no, hauv kuv lub qhov muag, yog qhov muaj nyiaj zoo heev, vim tias tsis muaj leej twg tuaj yeem txeeb ntawm koj mus ua tub sab, tsis muaj kev kub ntxhov yuav yaj tau nws lossis nrov nws zoo li npuas…

    Yawm yij! Ua tsaug ntau koj tuaj qhia os.

  2. 3

    Tus ncej zoo,

    Kuv nco qab zoo li ib tug neeg hluas raug hais tias Kuv tuaj yeem ua txhua yam hauv lub neej uas kuv muab lub siab rau. Thiab thaum txhua tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig kuv tau qhov zoo thiab txhawb nqa; tsis muaj ib tus neeg tuaj yeem pab coj kuv thiab muab kev taw qhia rau kuv yuav ua li cas tig kuv lub zog rau hauv kev ua lag luam kev ua lag luam thiab yuav ua li cas kom tsis txhob muaj haujlwm ntawm qhov tsis muaj zog.

    Raws li ib tug hluas; Kuv yog tus pib ua thiab txog niaj hnub no kuv pom kev sib txuas lus thiab kev ua kom muaj kev sib raug zoo rau qhov tau ua kuv txoj haujlwm nyuaj.

    Saib rov rau ntawm kuv lub neej; Kuv tsis xav tias kuv tau muaj ntau yam tsis ua tiav vim tias kuv tsis tau coj txoj hmoo loj uas yuav ua rau muaj kev vam meej loj.

    Doug, ua tsaug rau koj ua rau kuv xav ntau yam.

  3. 5

    Doug,

    Txij li thaum kuv thawj zaug tau ntsib koj, koj tau ua haujlwm ua qhov kev txhawb zog rau kuv ib txwm thiab ua ntej yog unapologetically ME. Kuv ntseeg tau tias muaj ntau yam uas yuav cuam tshuam kuv rau qhov ntawd.

    Thiab, yav tsaus ntuj ua ntej, ua tsaug rau koj txoj kev pabcuam rau peb lub tebchaws!

  4. 7

    Nws yog qhov nthuav tias koj nrhiav tau ntawm “kev sim los ntawm hluav taws” tias kev nqis peev ntawm ib lub zog yog tsawg kawg yog ib qho ntawm cov yuam sij kom muaj kev zoo siab.

    Scientists have come to a similar conclusion. You can find a series of videos and articles that delve into this notion of “happiness” no.

    Cheers!

Yuav ua li cas koj xav hais tias?

Qhov Web site no siv Akismet los txo cov kev pabcuam. Kawm li cas koj cov ntaub ntawv tawm tswv yim tiav.